tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post5050802829278219079..comments2023-08-12T06:41:11.740-07:00Comments on Laughing Helps: Marriage Spiced with Aspergers: Sometimes…laughing helpshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-18240686065045992142013-02-01T18:38:55.378-08:002013-02-01T18:38:55.378-08:00I think if you just click on the LyndaD next to my...I think if you just click on the LyndaD next to my picture then it should take you there. Its called Living In The Land of Oz. I havent finished set up as i dont know what to do. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12605358521258969537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-277383638500889592013-02-01T09:02:33.510-08:002013-02-01T09:02:33.510-08:00awesome lynda! breathing & blogging - let me k...awesome lynda! breathing & blogging - let me know when/how to access yours - i know my blog has been such a catharsis for me - thanks again for sharing...laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-37101881144312834192013-02-01T08:51:16.217-08:002013-02-01T08:51:16.217-08:00lol (see? i CAN still laugh!) i just realized that...lol (see? i CAN still laugh!) i just realized that 15-20 years ago i wouldn't have been able to see the light side - he is sooooo lucky to have me now...laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-90565457419669013692013-01-31T18:01:31.457-08:002013-01-31T18:01:31.457-08:00Hearing you loud and clear. Im often told "w...Hearing you loud and clear. Im often told "why cant you be like when i married you" - 20 years ago. I answer that i am now middle aged, with middle aged values and more experience doesnt seem to gel with my Aspie husband. His ability to be childlish is both a joy and a constant irritation. I sometimes long for an equal not someone im caring for or adjusting to. I wish i had their ability (both of them) to forget and forgive so quickly. Recently my son in a fit of anger (because i told him he could have his phone back when he went to his room - at almost 1 in the morning) lit matches over me while i was in bed. They were so close i felt the heat on my face and yet, the next day he asked me why i was sad. It makes them angry that i cant move on so quickly. Im in pain from their hurt but then they hurt me again for not getting over it. My new little pills are helping - im not so teary but im thinking of a tatoo on the inside of my wrist that says "Just Breathe". Anyway, i wanted to tell you that i started a blog. its not set up fully as i dont know how but ive posted two posts. I read them to my husband last night and he was very complimentary. I'm addicted to coffee - i need to be, as i cant drink, dont smoke and too much of a goodie two shoes to take illicit drugs. LOL. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12605358521258969537noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-84022284529232742202013-01-31T13:10:07.312-08:002013-01-31T13:10:07.312-08:00Thank you for sharing the hard stuff too. I love ...Thank you for sharing the hard stuff too. I love that you see the light side of so many situations, but sometimes it is just plain hard. But we can do hard things.Princess Moraghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12487488036461371867noreply@blogger.com