tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post8683119105923246738..comments2023-08-12T06:41:11.740-07:00Comments on Laughing Helps: Marriage Spiced with Aspergers: Weeding Out the Problemslaughing helpshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-36308111994555464642017-08-06T05:35:44.092-07:002017-08-06T05:35:44.092-07:00Excellent read! Steve has brother in Canada named ...Excellent read! Steve has brother in Canada named Mike aka Homer. Tongue and Cheek is a survival skill, so is some emotional shopping paired with a great crafted coffee and maybe another NT' s ear to listen. Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16176845452424814545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-87096050134845465282014-05-21T11:01:55.979-07:002014-05-21T11:01:55.979-07:00laughing joyously out loud!
first and foremost, ...laughing joyously out loud! <br /><br />first and foremost, i have to laugh at the thought that my aspie hubby would 'go out' with even ONE other woman - i've often wondered how much someone would charge me to take him off my hands...<br /><br />second, i am usually relieved when he comes home late - gives me a much needed breather...<br /><br />third, God is my 'spell caster' - He answers every single one of my prayers - not always the way i'd like them to be answered, and sometimes no answer is His answer...<br /><br />finally, if this is a spam message, then i'm leaving it just for the laugh - you've made my day!laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-43842272792145943282014-05-20T14:29:35.432-07:002014-05-20T14:29:35.432-07:00After six years in marriage with my husband with 3...After six years in marriage with my husband with 3 kids, he suddenly started going out with other women and coming home late, each time i confronted him it turns out to be a fight and he always threatened to divorce me at all time, my marriage was gradually coming to an end. i tried all i could to stop him from this unruly attitude but all proved abortive, until i saw a post in the forum about a spell caster who helps people cast spell on marriage and relationship problems, at first i doubted it but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this Spell caster Dr. Dangogo via email, he helped me cast a spell and within 4 hours my husband came back apologizing for all he has done and promised never to do such again and today we are happily together again. Contact this Great spell caster for your marriage or relationship issues via this email; dr.dangogospell@gmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-82993340718884654322013-03-09T07:14:28.914-08:002013-03-09T07:14:28.914-08:00and yes, there are times i just have to ignore rud...and yes, there are times i just have to ignore rude or insensitive comments as i would a school yard bully - words hurt, but only if i let them - i try hard to put positive thoughts into my own head when the verbal crap is slung - you know how you try to hold your breath when working with nasty smells? it's possible to 'tune out' the 'icky stuff' too - plugging into my ipod with earbuds works wonders...laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-8869390528625994142013-03-09T07:10:50.802-08:002013-03-09T07:10:50.802-08:00change is gradual and comes from choosing a differ...change is gradual and comes from choosing a different way of doing things - wherein my apsie has his own set ways that have repeated themselves day in and day out over the last twenty years with no variation, i do sometimes forget my best intentions and repeat a pattern that turns out unpleasant - much of my coping skills do come from time and space to myself - i am thankful that my aspie is an adult so i can go off on my own - with an aspie child i wouldn't have that option...laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-64255903939531680262013-03-08T15:00:46.981-08:002013-03-08T15:00:46.981-08:00if as an aspie wife i knew how to change then i wo...if as an aspie wife i knew how to change then i would, maybe we have become room mates but its the putting down of every thing i do in a way that isn't meant to hurt its just his funny way with me, ive had enough and need peace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-31966803768091235602012-07-19T22:26:27.898-07:002012-07-19T22:26:27.898-07:00it is very good to hear your perspective and your ...it is very good to hear your perspective and your wife's - fortunately i enjoy my 'roommate' status as well as being a couple - it helps a lot - and thank you for your encouragement! i'm glad you enjoyed it...laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-35075717642020656562012-07-18T07:18:04.636-07:002012-07-18T07:18:04.636-07:00This is a response to "Weeding out the proble...This is a response to "Weeding out the problems" from the husband's side. I'm the husband with Asperger's Syndrome in our marriage. My understanding wife has to live with the fact that my AS often means that I don't seem like I'm emotionally involved with her. At times, she has described us as being more like roommates that a loving married couple. It's something that we're working on. So your article is accurate, besides being entertaining. Good post!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-20197159859333578962012-07-08T16:49:19.687-07:002012-07-08T16:49:19.687-07:00absolutely! thx for reading - some of my favorite ...absolutely! thx for reading - some of my favorite flowers are other people's weeds!laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-31550198252150995392012-07-08T06:28:41.588-07:002012-07-08T06:28:41.588-07:00Cool post. Made me chuckle here and there. Marriag...Cool post. Made me chuckle here and there. Marriages work when people are willing to work together on everything. That's why we should lead our hearts instead of following it. Leave the weed pulling for another day!Sensory Processing Disorder Symptomshttp://www.sensoryswim.com/sensoryprocessingdisordersymptomsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-22789047131810640042012-06-28T06:50:42.447-07:002012-06-28T06:50:42.447-07:00and i do apologize for seeming disrespectful to my...and i do apologize for seeming disrespectful to my husband - i certainly did not intend to convey that - i love my husband dearly, and simply wish to share a 'positive' viewpoint with other spouses/partners/family members of those with aspergers syndrome - so much of what i've read about aspie/nt relationships is disheartening...<br /><br />this specific blog was written 'tongue-in-cheek' (another good way of keeping quiet as one can't speak when their tongue is unavailable)laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-36454859682853857742012-06-27T22:01:43.159-07:002012-06-27T22:01:43.159-07:00thanks so much for sharing - it is always good to ...thanks so much for sharing - it is always good to consider all sides of issues...laughing helpshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03419202929819268590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4259779034549832838.post-4641341068994955662012-06-27T21:04:26.508-07:002012-06-27T21:04:26.508-07:00I am an Aspie - an Aspie woman. I think you are bo...I am an Aspie - an Aspie woman. I think you are both right. I think that Aspie men are really pretty inflexible - I should know, I've lived with a few myself. I've married a couple of them. I myself, like many Aspie women, have pursued understanding what is required in relationships, but that's not so typical of Aspie men. <br />Now for the part of where your husband is right. People should be able to stand in parks without being arrested. I have studied the constitution a bit, and I can tell you that this is true. We in fact now live in a world where our constitutional freedoms are being violated left and right, and nobody gets upset, because nobody realises it. There's a story that's used as an analogy for what has happened, and it goes "If you put a frog in cold water, then gradually turn up the heat, the frog will never notice when he starts to get cooked." Gruesome, but it's a good analogy for what's happening in our country right now - it's GRADUALLY being turned into a police state, and no one is noticing, because of how gradually it's happening. You should be very upset too, because it will eventually affect everyone. Take it from me, because I know history and government pretty darn well. <br /><br />Maybe you could respect some of the things your husband says, but then try to help him understand that you need some reciprocality in your relationship. Start with a few objectives at first, then add a few more, reward liberally for accomplishments, ad infinitum. Before you know it, you may have a husband who helps out a bit, and is willing to give a LITTLE bit. Don't expect miracles, but you might get a little relief!Ryleehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15746949202111704882noreply@blogger.com